My dog isn't territorial. Or this is
what I thought, anyway, when I fogged up the name on my virtual Dog
Sitting shingle, burnished it with my shirtsleeve and hung it up in
an online pet care site. Think 'Uber for pet sitters,' and you'll
have the idea.
She barely registers a response when I
walk through the door, let alone a stranger. She stays wherever she
is – be it couch or bed or a sunny spot on the floor – unless
there's something in it for her. Cookies, let's say, or a walk.
But she will greet other dogs
playfully, roughhouse a bit if they are willing, and show them the
sights: The couches, the beds; the sunny spots on the floors.
And honestly, the idea of having a
second dog that we get paid to take care of – and who morphs from a
Shih Tzu into a Jack Russell terrier and then into a giant Labrador
retriever from one week to the next – is pretty cool.
Except that I've noticed my dog
skulking about, watching me through lowered head and raised eyes,
ready at the slightest bit of affection paid to a visiting pal to
barrel in between the interloper and me, and reassert her place in
the hierarchy: Top Dog.
There has been some snarling, some
protecting of the very same cats that she, herself, would have
otherwise chased into closets, and some separate corner moments.
Arguments happen. Growling and raised
hackles circling. When tempers flair we all go for a walk. Walks are
a great equalizer. There is no home territory on a walk. No toy that
is hers and hers alone. There is only the outdoors. And there are
squirrels. The only struggle is mine as my charges stretch as far
forward as the end of a leash will allow. Tangles-be-damned.
Tire them out. It's a strategy that can
work pretty well for animals of all species, even the human ones.
Tucker them out, and they won't have the energy to fight. They might
even forget they aren't life-long friends.
Although there's something about that
idea gives me pause.
As I watched my daughter snuggle up on
the couch – a buffer between our pooch and her visiting friend --
it occurred to me through squinted eye and magical thinking that we'd
been here before. A wisp of a girl sandwiched between the affections
of a dark pointed fawn-colored dog with floppy ears, and a lanky,
pony-sized black Labrador mutt.
Ages ago.
I was thinking about our old dogs,
Maggie and Maddy. The dogs my husband and had before we married, and
who had greeted the advent of our first child with a mix of confusion
and wonder, and, finally, joy. The dogs that mark our lives with
their indelible ink of their canine simplicity; a combination we tend
to think of as loyalty and devotion.
I dusted off my camera and took a
picture.
My daughter's head tipped back, and her
mouth wide-open in laughter. Her hand was kneading one dog's ear
while the other dog shifted position. The moment before I snapped the
picture our visitor was seated squarely on my daughter. A human
pillow.
Dog, sitting.
It wasn't new territory; it was more
than familiar.
It may have even been karma.
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